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Locations for In-Person Tying
Expand your knowledge and skills with our comprehensive collection of resources. Access articles, tutorials, recommended readings, and videos curated to support your journey in Shibari Rope Kinbaku. Whether you’re a novice or an experienced practitioner, our resources are here to inspire, educate, and empower you along the way.
Negotiation Form: Help ensure Permission, Consent, and Safety Welcome to our Shibari scene negotiation form. This is to help those new and experienced in the scene. It’s designed to facilitate open communication and ensure that all participants are comfortable and aware of the boundaries and expectations involved in a Shibari scene. Our goal is to create an environment where any pain experienced is consensual and within the agreed-upon parameters. The form serves as a foundation for open dialogue and understanding, fostering a positive and empowering experience for everyone involved.
Please remember that consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
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Education / Learning:
| http://www.kinbakunomicon.com | Online Archive to the history and practice of Kinbaku. | Contains in-depth articles, podcasts, and galleries. |
| https://www.nawapedia.net | Online encyclopedia of Japanese bondage and related kinky activities | Aims to bring information about Japanese SM to a wider audience. Due to the language barrier, majority has been inaccessible. Nawa means rope in Japanese and Nawapedia focuses primarily on Japanese rope artists (kinbakushi), writers, photographers, performers |
Locations for In-Person Tying, Southern CA:
Not an endorsement of the locations. Please do your due diligence in checking each of them out. Contact me to add your location to the list.
| LB Shibari Dojo | https://fetlife.com/groups/257144 lbshibaridojo.com Large dedicated to rope facility: 4000 sq ft, 4 x bamboo beams and 2 rings for suspension. Working art studio with a rope fetish. |
| OC Rope Night | https://fetlife.com/groups/100890 Very welcoming. Private home so be respectful and bring your own equipment. Monthly rope social. Free event. |
| SAKE | https://fetlife.com/groups/223705 WWW.SAKEOFFICIAL.COM Rope tying welcome. Limited space dedicated to rope. Has a monthly rope social. Bring your own mats. Mostly concrete floors. |
| LA Rope Dojo | https://fetlife.com/groups/86262?sp=2 Small location and dedicated to an intimate learning environment. Good place to learn if you are close by. |
| Threshold | https://thresholdla.org/ Rope tying welcome. Limited space dedicated to rope. Has a monthly rope social and classes. BDSM dedicated club. Have to be a member and buy tickets for your guests. Unfortunately still asking for Vaccination cards. Make your own decision. |
| Devil’s Mask Society | https://devilmasksociety.com/index.html Rope dedicated community. Found at different locations. Not to be confused with Devils Mask Studio or Dark Magic Society. |
| Sanctuary | https://www.sanctuarylax.com/sessions/new Rope tying welcome. Limited space dedicated to rope. Has a monthly rope social and classes. BDSM dedicated club. Unfortunately still asking for Vaccination cards. Make your own decision. |
| 910 Weho | https://www.910weho.com/ Rope tying welcome. Limited space dedicated to rope. Has a monthly rope social and classes. BDSM dedicated club. |
| BLAQLOT.US | https://fetlife.com/groups/22569 Rope centric group with dedicated play areas. If someone has been here please send me feedback on them. |
| All Tied Up San Diego | https://www.alltiedupsandiego.com/events/ An educational group for adults 18 and older. We are committed to the safety and education of both Tops and bottoms interested in having rope as part of their experience. We want to provide opportunities for the rope community to come together, practice, and share their love of rope. |
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