Shibari Note Taking Workbook: Developed based on feedback. So if you have recommendations for improvements please email us.

Rope Bottom Class Resources: written / taught by rope bottoms and focused on the rope bottom perspective

Interests and Limits: Short 2 page starter interest

Building a Scene. Use the prompts to guide you through imagining an experience. Don’t put limits on yourself first time through. Imagine this as a scene in your kinky dreams. Then go back through and really start thinking about your feelings, reactions, wants, needs, limitations, etc.

Rope Bottom Self-Reflection & Communication
Moment of MISALIGNMENT moving to RESOLUTION. This worksheet is designed for rope bottoms in Shibari and BDSM to explore emotional safety, accountability, and connection within D/s or rope dynamics. Work through each section thoughtfully.

Shibari Relationship Dynamics: for Rope Bottoms: You are not an inanimate object that gets tied. You are an active part of the process. This worksheet can be shared with your rope top or used as a personal guide to refine your understanding of your needs and desires in rope. It is meant to get you thinking about yourself and improve communication, guide conversations, emotional awareness, and relationship dynamics.

Set Realistic Expectations for Shibari Ties

How to be realistic and set your scale for knowing your body… Start with: Rate yourself without testing each area. Next: Test each area. NOW: Go stretch out ! Last: Test each area again.

Blank Kink Starting List

Adjust this list to fit your needs. This is a starting point for discussing. I suggest you set aside emotion and discuss this from a place of openness. Sometimes it is incredibly difficult to explain to our partner we have a want, need, or fantasy. We might not understand it. We also need to be able to trust our partner to talk about it without having shame projected onto us.